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agilebrit ([personal profile] agilebrit) wrote2009-06-25 11:15 am
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Because I have an unhealthy tendency to dwell on things...

Apropos of this post: The other thing that's rage-inducing about the whole debate about warnings in fanfiction is this.

The anti-warnings crowd shouts that "rape victims should take responsibility for their own reading." And then they do, by compiling a list of authors who don't warn. See [livejournal.com profile] trigger_fence.

Do said authors applaud them for "taking responsibility"?

NO. They whine about being "singled out." They cry about being "blacklisted." And they report the community for "abuse." Which is HILARIOUS (in the way that's really not) coming from these people and considering the subject matter.

God. If you're not going to warn, then when people create a tool for rape survivors to help them avoid their triggers, don't get all up in their grill about it. You were the one who told them to "take responsibility." They are. Shut up and deal. Kind of like you told them to.

You know, I'm not a rape survivor. I've never been abused. I have no idea why I'm taking this so damn personally. But I am. And I guess venting on LJ is my way of handling it.

Gyah. I'm going to go hurt Ben now. Because that's also my way of "handling it."

Um. For anyone stumbling across this who doesn't know me, Ben is a character in my current novel-in-progress and My Favorite Punching Bag™, not a real person. 911 calls are not necessary.

[identity profile] expectare.livejournal.com 2009-06-25 07:38 pm (UTC)(link)
by "take responsibility," they mean "shut up and go away." It's not a question of artistry at all, it's all about not having their bubble broken or even pressed a little by other people's problems. They don't want to acknowledge, in any way possible, that anything they might possibly do might ever be taken for problematic. They want to get praise for dealing with "tough issues" (or, alternatively, get off in peace) without remembering WHY those issues are tough (or being forced to confront the fact their fetish is screwed up).

[identity profile] agilebrit.livejournal.com 2009-06-25 07:44 pm (UTC)(link)
*nods* It's about them getting their squee harshed. Too often they forget that there are real people on the other side of that keyboard who are being injured by what they're doing and saying. It's amazingly selfish.

[identity profile] expectare.livejournal.com 2009-06-25 07:55 pm (UTC)(link)
The problem lies in the fact it's not a question of forgetting--they actively don't want to acknowledge that what they are doing and say could possibly be harmful or injurious in any way whatsoever. They don't want to be told off in any way, shape, or form.

[identity profile] agilebrit.livejournal.com 2009-06-25 07:58 pm (UTC)(link)
A few of them have been taught. But this aggressive form of not getting it is what's got me bristling so hard, I guess.

Whoever invents a way of smacking someone through the internet will be sitting on a gold mine.